How Harmful Online Groups Work and What Parents Can Do to Protect Their Children

Some corners of the internet look like ordinary chat groups, fandoms, or gaming clans, but inside they run on in-jokes, secrecy, dares, and pressure. Over time, they normalize cruelty, hate, sexual exploitation, or self-harm and work to recruit new members, including children.

Most of these groups start on mainstream platforms-short-video apps, gaming chats, and group DMs—then push kids into private or encrypted spaces with less oversight. The vibe is “edgy” and exclusive: we get it; adults don